Comments:

Dave Dempsey - 2008-02-22 03:34:41
The answer as always is in you. From this post I'd say your answer is to give things more time...meditate...pause...enjoy...and consider. Don't throw the HB out with the bathwater.
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Lori - 2008-02-22 14:36:28
I've been thinking about your situation since your last post... The push-pull between what you want/need and what he wants/needs is what relationships are all about. But long(er) term relationships have the luxury of letting you go further out on that limb because of the support of a strong trunk built on shared history and trust. You have to explore this territory, but do it with the understanding that you're dealing with a sapling and not an oak of a relationship. Bend, but don't snap it unless that's what your final analysis says is needed.
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Jim515 - 2008-02-22 15:47:18
What I don't know about relationships could fill a book, but I'm kinda feeling what the other posters have said (For myself, while I might want someone to "spend a lifetime with", I don't think I'd turn my nose up at the chance to enjoy some good sex and amiable companionship with an agreeable partner along the way).
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